Unapologetic Aging:

A Therapeutic Book Club

What if you could…

Nourish your body and spirit without rules, restrictions, or apology?

Let go of body shame and reclaim trusting yourself, vitality, and body-respect—alongside women who get it?

Step into this chapter feeling more connected, grounded, and free—together with a community of midlife+ rebels?

What might become possible if you stopped treating your aging body as something to fix and began exploring what it means to live more fully in it?

Join Deb Benfield, M.Ed., RDN/LDN, RYT, author of Unapologetic Aging, for an eight-week facilitated journey through the book.

Together, we'll explore what it means to untangle ourselves from diet culture and ageism, mend our relationships with our bodies, and deepen our commitment to living unapologetically as we age.

Eight weekly online gatherings

🗓️ Tuesdays, October 27 – December 15, 2026

🕚 12 PM ET / 9 AM PT

🎥. Online + recordings available

‍ ‍ This will be an intentionally small group to increase access for all participants.

This is not your typical book club.

You may have read books about body acceptance. You may understand intellectually how diet culture and ageism shape the way you see yourself.

And still, you find yourself standing in front of a mirror, wishing something were different.

Understanding these systems is important. But intellectual understanding doesn't always translate into a different lived experience.

That's why I created this group.

Over eight weeks, we'll use Unapologetic Aging as our guide, moving beyond simply reading the material to exploring how it shows up in our lives, relationships, and bodies.

We'll make space for the complicated feelings that can accompany aging, including grief, anger, curiosity, possibility, and joy.

You won't be asked to love every part of your body, replace every negative thought with a positive affirmation, or pretend aging is always wonderful.

Instead, we'll explore what becomes possible when we stop making our bodies the enemy.

Who is this group for?

This experience will be especially meaningful if:

  • You're navigating midlife or beyond and find your relationship with your body challenging.

  • You're so tired of the relentless pressure to optimize, improve, shrink, or reverse your aging body.

  • You understand the principles of body acceptance but find them difficult to integrate into your everyday life.

  • You're curious about reclaiming pleasure, connection, and vitality without letting your appearance measure your worth.

  • You'd appreciate a supportive community of women exploring similar questions.

You don't have to be at a particular place in your body image journey to belong here.

This is a facilitated therapeutic discussion and reflection group, not a substitute for individualized nutrition, psychotherapy, or eating disorder treatment.

Unapologetic Aging:

A Therapeutic Book Club

You've read about body liberation. Now let's explore what it feels like to live it.

An 8-week small group program

This unique program, based on the book Unapologetic Aging: How to Mend and Nourish Your Relationship With Your Body, transforms meaningful concepts into everyday practices—engaging your mind, heart, and body to support real and lasting change.


The Unapologetic Aging Recipe

1ST INGREDIENT: Untangling

We begin by getting curious about what we’ve been taught. Together, we’ll untangle the messages of diet culture, anti-aging culture, and the body hierarchy from what we actually believe and want for ourselves.

2ND INGREDIENT: Mending

Once we begin to recognize what we’ve internalized, we can tend to the relationship we have with our bodies. Mending isn’t about learning to love every part of ourselves. It’s about cultivating more trust, respect, nourishment, and care for the bodies carrying us through our lives.

3RD INGREDIENT: Practices

Knowing something intellectually isn’t the same as experiencing it in your body. Through gentle, accessible practices, we’ll explore what body respect, presence, pleasure, rest, nourishment, and aliveness can actually feel like—not just what they mean.

Special Sauce: Community

We were never meant to figure all of this out alone. There is something powerful about being in a room with others who are questioning the same messages, sharing their own stories, and practicing another way alongside us. Community reminds us that so much of what we’ve experienced as personal body shame was never simply personal—and gives us a place while we find a way to imagine something different together.

What You’ll Experience Inside Unapologetic Aging-

🌿 Weekly Live 75-Minute Group Coaching Calls

Led by Deb, each session includes guided conversation, space for reflection, and embodied practices to help integrate the week’s focus, with recordings if you can’t make it.

📝 Curated Practices & Reflections

Gentle, thought-provoking exercises based on the practices in Unapologetic Aging, designed to deepen your awareness, spark curiosity, and help you translate ideas into meaningful shifts.

📚 Transformative Content Designed for Midlife and Beyond

Topics include:

  • Releasing ageist, limiting beliefs

  • Shifting from diet rules to a self-care mindset

  • Nourishing your body for energy and vitality—free of diet/wellness mess

  • Healing body shame and reclaiming respect for your body as your life partner

  • Finding joy and play in movement

  • Regulating your nervous system to support ease, presence, and resilience

Each week will include a facilitated conversation, reflection, and opportunities to explore the book's practices.

What we’ll explore together:

Debra Benfield, a woman with curly dark hair and glasses sitting on a cream-colored couch with a laptop, in a bright room with large windows and white furniture.

Meet Deb

I’m Deb Benfield, a Registered Dietitian, nutrition therapist, body image coach, and author of Unapologetic Aging, with 40+ years of experience helping women heal their relationship with food, movement, and their bodies.

My work is rooted in a simple belief: your body is not a problem to be solved, and midlife and beyond isn’t a crisis to be managed.

Through decades of supporting people recovering from disordered eating, chronic dieting, and body shame, I’ve seen how deeply cultural narratives—especially diet culture and ageism—shape the way we see and treat ourselves. And as I navigate my own aging, I’ve become increasingly passionate about helping women question those messages and find more ease, nourishment, respect, and aliveness in their changing bodies.

I wrote Unapologetic Aging and created this small-group book club because knowing these ideas intellectually isn’t always the same as living them. I wanted to create a supportive, shame-free space where we can explore what it means to put this work into practice—together.

We won’t be working toward loving every part of our bodies or never experiencing body shame again. Instead, we’ll practice meeting ourselves with more curiosity and compassion, moving away from fear and control and toward care, trust, and respect.

If you’re tired of battling your body and curious about what a different relationship with it could feel like, I’d love to have you join us.

What do I receive as a participant?

  • 8 virtual weekly 75-minute group coaching sessions with Deb and the recording

  • Some modules will include pre-work, some modules will include homework, and all will include content to support each module via Unapologetic Aging: How to Mend and Nourish Your Relationship with Your Body .

  • Access to this inspiring group of women

  • Group Coaching sessions will take place on Tuesdays at

    9 am PT/12:00 pm ET via Zoom.

    • Group size is small to encourage access to the group process.

  • Investment: $500

  • Fall 2026 Cohort: October 27-December 15

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FAQs

  • What is the refund policy for this group coaching program?

This is an “I’m all in!” program. No refunds will be offered.

  • Can I use my health insurance policy to pay for this?

I am not your individual Registered Dietitian/Nutritionist, therefore, you cannot use your health insurance for payment.

You may however use your FSA or HSA card for payment.